Should old acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind? Should old acquaintance be forgot, and old lang syne? Or Nathan Phillips Square in Toronto where the crowds wrap up tight against the cold and double long johns are the new black.
And a lot of the people drinking and kissing and hugging and laughing are stark bloody naked. Some chant the numbers from the heated outdoor pool. Jana Matthews, owner of Oasis Aqualounge, was inspired by the European spas of her birth country when designing the Oasis spa and lounge. Four floors in a restored Victorian mansion. Her goal since starting Oasis in has been to help couples enhance their relationship and women enhance their lives through sexual understanding, exploration and growth.
But to those who know, the best sex clubs have always been about feminism. Women are in charge. Women make the decisions. Women decide what happens and how. Men, just for once in our culture, are the ornaments, the often mysterious and sometimes extra-terrestrial other sex that provides diversity and variety when needed.
My date for the evening is club hostess MsKitty who meets me in the ground floor bar. Silent porn plays endlessly on one wall, a stripper pole dominates the lounge area.
MsKitty shows me around the four floors of the club, introduces me to a few couples. No single men except me, the writer.
